He’s Just Not That Into You.

We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.


I just need you to stop being nice to me unless you’re gonna marry me.


Maybe his grandma died or maybe he lost my number or is out of town or got hit by a cab…
Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again.


If a guy doesn’t call you, he doesn’t want to call you.


A wise person once told me that if a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen, no matter what.
Alex: That’s true.
Gigi: But when I was hurling my body onto yours, you did not seem to want to make it happen. And that same wise person told me that I’m the rule. That I have to stop thinking that every guy will change, that I have to stop thinking that… I’m the exception..



Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up: if a boy punches you he likes you, never try to trim your own bangs, and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. every movie we see, every story we’re told implores us to wait for it: the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. but sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending we don’t learn how to read the signs. how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. and maybe a happy ending doesn’t include a guy, maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. maybe the happy ending is just moving on. or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing after all the unreturned phone calls and broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment… you never gave up hope.


and this is from me…

I learn that someone who really into you will do everything to know more about you.

Someone who really into you will do everything to find a way to be a part of your life.

Someone who really into you will not easily give up when he find any troubles while trying to get your heart.

No matter what, someone who really into you will always fight for his feeling for you.

And when someone who said he really interest about you but doing nothing.

Well, nothing more to expect from him then. Forget it. He doesn’t deserve you anyway.



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